As year-end jubilation
fades into the reality of post-holiday credit card bills and the same
old routine, we make an earnest vow that this will be the year we accomplish
the things that make our life bliss on earth. So we ambitiously craft
a to-do list that starts with getting fit enough to win the Iron Man competition
and ends with being credited for initiating a thousand years of planetary
peace. And then we wonder why we set the list aside to fade into oblivion
along side the Christmas poinsettia.
Setting New Year's resolutions that we actually
(want to) accomplish
To accomplish anything, we have to set goals; and setting
realistic and/or meaningful goals helps ensure that we don't set ourselves
up for failure or accomplish things that, in the end, are meaningless
to us. Here are a few tips to help you set goals that you'll achieve:
Define
the goal. What, exactly, do you want to accomplish? This may seem
insultingly simple, but you'd be surprised how often people pursue goals
that are too vague and can't be articulated, much less accomplished.
Know
why it's important (and to whom). The Land of Unachieved Goals is
littered with goals that just weren't personally meaningful. Ask yourself
why you want to accomplish the goal in the first place, and make sure
it's important to you, not just someone else. We're all much more motivated
to achieve something that's personally meaningful.
Envision
the result. Once accomplished, what does the result of your goal look
like? How might you be talking about it? How will it feel? How will your
life change once your goal is achieved (and is this acceptable to you)?
How will you celebrate your accomplishment? Seeing your goal completed
will help you define the goal specifically enough to be achieved and decide
if it's something that you want to do at all.
Allow
a realistic timeline. Allow too much time, and it'll be easy to procrastinate;
put an unrealistically tight deadline in place, and you'll cause yourself
undue stress and set yourself up for failure. Sketch out what it'll take
and who else you must rely on to accomplish your goal, then allow just
enough time to do it.
Review
your goal each day. Spend a few minutes in your morning planning and
reflection time identifying where you are in relation to your goal and
noting at least one thing you can do that day to make progress toward
accomplishing your goal. Taking some action, even if small, will support
forward-momentum.
Celebrate
the accomplishment. Too often, we neglect to enjoy the positive results
of our efforts. Buy yourself a mocha (including the whipped cream) or
enjoy a nice meal with a friend to celebrate your accomplishment.
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