<% if Request.Form("FORMID")="1" then %> Your answers to questions concerning the origin of your body image are being e-mailed to you. <% MailText="" 'j=Request.Form.count 'for r=1 to j 'if not(Request.Form(r)="") then ' if Request.Form.Key(r)<>"FORMID" and Request.Form.key(r)<>"submit" and Request.Form.key(r)<>"reset" then ' MailText=MailText&request.form.key(r)&" "&Request.Form(r)&vblf ' end if 'end if 'next MailText="Here are my answers to questions in www.learningplaceonline.com concerning how I formed my ideas of the perfect female body"&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&"One"&Trim(Request("Line1"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line2"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line3"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line4"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line5"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line6"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line7"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line8"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line9"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line10"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line11"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line12"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line13"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line14"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line15"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line16"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line17"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line18"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line19"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line20"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line21"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line22"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line23"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line24"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line25"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line26"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line27"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line28"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line29"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line30"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line31"))&vbcrLf MailText=MailText&""&Trim(Request("Line32"))&vbcrLf set objMail=server.createobject("JMail.SMTPMail") objMail.ServerAddress="216.2.96.21" objMail.Sender="notes@learningplaceonline.com" objMail.Subject="My Answers to Questions from Learning Place Online" 'objMail.AddRecipient("support@e50.com") Dim recipient recipient = Trim(Request("recip")) objMail.AddRecipient recipient objMail.Body=MailText objMail.execute set objMail=nothing %> <% else %> Return to Test Yourself Index The Origin of Your Body Image—An E-mail to Yourself Please note: These questions focus on women's body image while What Does "Handsome" Mean to You? is a shorter set of questions for men. Please fill out as many questions below as you can. And remember that you can come back here again and change your answers as you learn more about yourself. Your e-mail address Who in your life has made you feel the most beautiful physically and what did they do or say? What statements would you make to these people today? Who contributed most to your feeling uneasy and dissatisfied with your body and what did they do or say? What statements would you make to these people today? What are your beliefs about what life is like for the "culturally-defined" gorgeous woman? What experiences do you think these women have that you do not? Would you trade places with them if you could? How do you imagine your life would change if you looked like them? If you could change something about your body, what would you change? How do you imagine this change would impact your life? When in your life did you start comparing yourself to other women? How much of your time and energy goes into these comparisons? Do the comparisons create positive or negative energy for you? How much time in your life have you spent thinking about changing, promising to change, wishing you could change aspects of your body? If you could have all that energy back, where would you direct it? Has your physical appearance brought on welcome or unwelcome advances from men? How has that affected your relationship with your body today? How has that affected your relationship with men? How has that affected your feelings of sexuality? How do you feel when a woman much smaller than you starts talking about how fat she is or how she just has to lose a few pounds? How do you feel about her and how does it make you feel about yourself? What do you do with those feelings? What woman had the greatest impact on you growing up? How much of her influence was related to her size? How much of your appreciation of her had to do with her size or shape? What are the three most important messages your mother or father taught you about physical beauty, size, shape? Do you still believe these messages? Are they good or harmful for you? Did you know very large women when you were growing up? Was their size discussed? How did you feel about what was said about their size? How did you relate these statements to yourself? <% end if %>